In times like these, we all find ourselves longing for the way things once were. We wish we could do what we once did and go where we once went. We keep looking back, wishing for the way things used to be. But the truth is when things like this happen, we’re not meant to look back – much less “go back” – to the way things used to be. In fact, the more we find ourselves looking back to the life we once had, the more likely we are to miss the life we *could* have. We’re meant to look forward and to forge ahead, as difficult as it might be. We can grieve what we’ve left behind, but we mustn’t go back to it!